Alexa and the other guests (…)would not understand the need to escape the oppresive lethargy of choicelessness. They would not understand why people like him, who ere raised well fed and watered but mired in dissatisfaction, conditioned from birth to look towards somewhere else, eternally convinced that real lives happened in that somewhere else, were now resolved to do dangerous things, illega things, so as to leave, none of them starving or raped, or from burned villages, but merely hungry for choice and certainty.

Americanah- Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

Ojiugo wore orange lipstick and ripped jeans, spoke bluntly, and smoked in public, provoking vicious gossip and dislike from other girls, not because she did these things but because she dared to without having lived abroad, or having a foreign parent, those qualities that would have made them forgive her lack of conformity.

Americanah- Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie